Note to Monica “Danger” Leon

Hey Monica! I will probably send you a text message later to reiterate what I am about to say right now. So the reunion show is later today (the taping of it) and you have recently asked whether you should beat up Unique or not. My first response is “Yes, beat her ass! She talked a whole lot of shit!” However, the thoughtful Lenette says “No, Monica. Don’t do it”.

We already know that VH1 is going to milk the hell out of this show and your image as a “crazy ass woman”. You are on an upward trajectory. Don’t spoil it now. I know that it is very tempting to go in whooping ass and taking names later. Please remember what you and your family have already went through because of everything that has transpired. If you have “handlers” that are telling you that actin’ a fool will further your career, take their advice with a grain of salt. They are only trying to ride on your coattails and if you should make a misstepp and are forced out of the spotlight, guess what? They won’t be there for you.

I’m sure it sounds like I am wrambling, and I am. I have a horrendous headache and can barely think clearly enough to put a cute outfit together, let alone write a heartfelt note of encouragment to you. I need to go lay down. Just remember what we spoke about on the phone and your future plans. Don’t get sidetracked and bamboozled into becoming a circus act. You are a very intelligent,  talented and beautiful young woman. The past is just that, the past! You have your whole life ahead of you. Please continue to make smart decisions that will sustain you in the long run.

Lenette aka LucyLovesBetty;-)

17 responses to “Note to Monica “Danger” Leon

  1. I agree completely, we would all love to see Unique’s ugly ass get jacked up but Monica is better than that to lower herself to ugly’s level!

  2. Lenette Graham

    Amen Mona! I just would like to know why everyone else can’t see right through Unique’s fakeassedness!! I’m trying to make up a new word like diddy with his “bitchassedness” or something like that! LMFAO!!😉

  3. Hey Lenette – I read one of your posts a little while ago about Unique being old, etc… She’s actually 23! Cocktail is 26! and Danger is 21! – or rather they were all of that age when the show was being taped. Thought it would make for some interesting trivia. Monica “Danger” seems like a very interesting girl, but the claims of pregnancy and nonchalant perspective when talking about her stints as a prostitute definitely took away from her charm”” … Anyway, she was my pick for Ray although it probably would’ve been a short-term thing because of Ray’s lifestyle and Danger’s sense of respect for herself in relation to monogamy… hahaaaa… Ray… monogamous… please.

  4. Lenette Graham

    Hi Emiliya, thank you for taking the time to read one of my posts. In all actuality, I don’t care enough about Unique to go on a fact-finding mission. When the show first aired I was rooting for Unique. She is beautiful and she appeared to be intelligent, charming and thoughtful. As the show went on, I became disenchanted with her. She seemed to be older than all of the other girls, maybe not chronologically but definitely in her carriage.

    Let me just say this, I know VH1 is editing the hell out of that show and it’s quite possible that Unique is not the manipulative person that the show makes her out to be. But might I also add, I do not know Unique. I have never talked to her on the phone or communicated with her on the internet or through texting.

    However, I have talked to Danger and perhaps what appears to be nonchalance about her “stints” as a prostitute is actually weariness. Can you just imagine how many interviewers have asked Monica about being a prostitute and posing nude? I’m sure she is sick to death of the same tired ass questions. And how about this, do you have any idea how all of this has affected her family? I’m not trying to put her family business in the streets but this has been extremely difficult for her family in more ways than one, ways that have not been reported in the media. Yes, she signed up for the show. But in talking to her, I know that she really was there for love and she fell in love with Ray. With or without the show, Monica is a very talented artist and she would have been discovered sooner or later. But I digress.

    Let us not forget Monica’s age. She was damn near a child when she posed nude for those photographs and when she prostituted herself. Were you there? I wasn’t. Do you know what was going through her mind at the time? I don’t. But I have a unique perspective, pardon the pun. My own mother was a prostitute. That shit wasn’t easy on me. In fact, it was hard as hell! The decision to become a prostitute is sometimes not a decision at all but a circumstance that you find yourself in. And once you’ve done it, it’s easier to do again and again, especially if you have low self-esteem and you feel like the world is against you. You may think “what do I have to lose?”

    When I look at Monica, I see an opportunity for her to change some lives. There are many young ladies out here who may be one situation away from becoming a prostitute. We’re not talking about “bad girls” here. We’re talking about regular girls who have lost their way. That’s all that happened to Monica, she lost her way. But she’s still a baby. She has her whole life ahead of her, and we need to stop judging her. I would LOVE to see all of the other ladies on that show fess up to ONE embarassing thing from their past, just ONE! Monica is brave. She is not shying away from her past, she’s telling us about it. She’s not proud about her past, but that past has made her the person that she is today. We have to stop looking back and start looking forward. EVERYONE deserves a second chance.

  5. don’t fall into the stereotypical role that people expect woman of color to depict. We all have a past yours was on television, you have still grown to be a strong black woman and your demons are demons of the past. take the Ray J show as an opportunity to blow up.. take your career to the next level. for the 3 of haters you have , there are twice as many people routing for you. take care Danger aka Monica

  6. Girl, first of all you look hot with that tattoo 2nd of all add me to your twitter account.. & 3rd of all I say you beat the shit out of cocktail because I think that bitch is fake & I dont like her Joker smile..she mos def was no cocktail waitress more of a stripper or an escort..sum shit like that…Anyways I saw parts of your interview & you remind me of the hispanic Marilyn Monroe..lol M U A H….GO HEAD DO UR THAAANG & BEAT COCKTAIL 4 ME & I GUESS UNIQUE

  7. Unique is scared anyways… she’ll run away just like she did at the boxing match… damn I wanted to see her stuck up ass get beat.
    Believe me there are plenty of people I’d love to knock out that I have to deal with on a regular basis… it takes alot of patience, so I feel Monica’s pain. But I agree.

  8. I am who you think I am

    Unique is under the impression she can judge people so she deserves to be judged…after everything that went on during the show her friends (stacks and cashmere) cannot stand her. Listen to a interveiw or two…she played the game the way most contridictory women do…point the finger and pick out small peices of the truth. I wouldnt be surprised if Unique did have a orgy in the bahamas…matter fact I heard it was true (not just a game trivia stunt on the last show) with a model.

  9. I am who you think I am

    Unique is under the impression she can judge people so she deserves to be judged…after everything that went on during the show her friends (stacks and cashmere) cannot stand her. Listen to a interveiw or two…she played the game the way most contridictory women do…point the finger and pick out small peices of the truth. I wouldnt be surprised if Unique did have a orgy in the bahamas…matter fact I heard it was true (not just a game trivia stunt on the last show) with a woman model.

  10. I heard that was true also omg!!!! My friend was at a photo shoot with this chic unique was fooling around with. She said it wasnt leading to anything serious but is it classy to meet a girl and have sex with her the same night? I think not!

  11. Adrianna lewis

    I believe it just watch the recap of her drooling over chardonnay when she was teaching fiesty a few moves. My own sister is a lesbian and said Unique cant hold the rainbow from bursting out of her eyes. HAHAHAHAHA

  12. Lenette Graham

    Adrianna, you are silly!! Very Funny! “Can’t hold the rainbow from bursting out of her eyes”. Hee-lar-ee-ous!!

  13. You girls stop! Unique will eventually choke and die on a bone, like she did each time she tried to sing….just give it time and we will read about it in the IHOP newsletter.

  14. Lenette Graham

    Y’all got me over here rollin’ now !! LMFAO!!😉

  15. found this blog on twitter

    ya’ll a mess i cant stop laughing damn did we all find this post on twitter lol biggups to danger if she dont merk the chic ESCO the GREAT

  16. U KNOW SOME 1 MIGHT BE MAD AT WAT IVE GOT TO SAY BUT THIS WHOLE THING BETWN DANGER AND UNIQUE WAS ABOUT OOOOO WHO S THE PRETTIEST LIGHT SKINNED BLACK CHICK . THE F IN JELOUSY WOMEN LOVE YOUR SELF FOR WHO U R WHAT U DO AND WAT UR GOOD AT AND LIKE I WROTE TO DANGER IT MADE ME FEEL SO GOOD WEN SHE SAID THEY DONT LIKE ME CAUSE OF THE WAY I LOOK CASUE I CAN REALTE BEING AFRICAN AMERICANAND HISPANIC I GET UPSET WEN I WALK DOWN THE STREET AND MY FELLOW BLACK GURL OR WOMAN HATES ME BECAUSE MY HAIR IS POSSIBLY LONGER THAN HERS BUT JUST ASS KINKY OR ITS IN REVERSE A BITCH CAN HATE U AND LOOK AND HAVE WAY MORE ACCENTS TO HER PACKAGE AND STILL HATE U

    MISS DANGER I WISH U ALL THE SUCCUESS GOD CAN BESTOW AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP CAUSE THE HATE IS ONLY GONNA GET STRONGER IN THE INDUSTRY AND NOW PEOPLE R GONNA TEST AND THINK THE KNOW YOU AT WORK AT FAMILY FUNCTIONS WAT A RIDE IT WILL BE BUT RIDE OUT HARD

    WE ALL HAVE SKELETONS IN OUR CLOSET NOONES PERFECT AND SOMETIMES WE DO WAT WE HAVE TO TO SURIVIE BELIEVE ME IM JUST A FAN A WOMAN AND I DONT THINK BY YOUR BUISNESS BEINGOUT THERE NOW SHOULD EFFECT YOU IN A NEGATIVE WAY ITS TOOO LATE AND YOUR TOO BEAUTIFUL

  17. I HATE that TRoll Unique — she is so corny — wit her retarted ass laugh–

    BEAT HER ASS!!!

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